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View of jungle from tree house
View of the lily pond from our tree house at sunrise

The '20 minutes’ drive in a 4X4 through the winding unmade road in the jungle near Sigiriya took us deep into lap of nature and away from the hustle and bustle of civilization. As we made our way into the wilderness, the signs of human existence slowly started dwindling, the mind started drifting into that nowhere-ness only to be jolted back into reality by the bumpy ride. We finally arrived at the ‘Back of Beyond - Wild Haven’ retreat for our tree house stay. which is built at the base of a hill where the streams of two rivers, Dehigaha Ela and Kiri Oya meet. A much needed refuge for all forms of wildlife - elephants, leopards, monkeys, sambar and birds with a small water lily pond which was once a basic water hole. We were greeted by the staff and were shown to our beautiful tree-house! As I am not the one researching and planning the logistics (done meticulously by the other half), I have the advantage of being more wowed by a place because I have nothing to compare it to! And I really love to experience my travels from this point of view. I intentionally refrain from looking at pictures of a place before I visit it (completely opposite of Joy here!) - this way the reactions are more intense (in good ways and otherwise!)

Tree House stay in Sri Lanka
Our tree house 

Anyway, we placed our bags and marveled at the beauty and simplicity of our beautifully crafted treehouse for a few minutes before exploring the surroundings. This was a zero plastic zone and travellers have to take all rubbish back with them, most of the staff walked around bare feet - this was a place where nature held top priority and not humans- humans just co-existed wonderfully with other forms of life was in abundant display.

Tree house stay in Sri Lanka
Inside the tree house

The tree houses surrounded a little pond with water lilies and loud croaking frogs. There was a little ‘reception’ and ‘dining area’ and just behind that tucked away like a little secret was the rock pool of Dehigaha Ela stream - an all-natural fish spa. The moment your feet touch the water - hundreds of small river fish show up to feast on the dead skin or your feet - giggling non-stop at the ticklish pedicure, our little one and us decided to take a dip soak up some freshness after the long bumpy ride! Here at the rock pool we met a lady who after a bit of chit chat told us that she and her husband were mapping leopards in the area and had spotted on just near our tree house, it was ‘interesting’ piece of information which were able to digest only after dinner….

Jungle stay in Sri Lanka
The rock pool of Dehigaha Ela

jungle tree house stay in Sri Lanka
The rock pool of Dehigaha Ela

Natural fish spa Sri Lanka
Free fish spa in the rock pool of Dehigaha Ela

Fresh from the river dip and extremely hungry back to the dining area. The food was unassuming and simple and made from locally sourced organic ingredients from nearby tribal farmlands. While we sat and chatted we were joined by an elderly lady from England who happened to live not very far from where we did! We realised that the lady at the rock pool was her daughter in law and they were spending time together with their grand-daughters while they carried on with leopard mapping. Oviyan was thrilled to see a playmate and though the little girl seemed less interested, he carried on talking to her until she caved in and then within minutes they were both collecting pebbles from the pond and washing them before releasing them back in the pond! I am sure the staff would have appreciated having clean pebbles in the pond!

Tradisional Sri Lanksan rice and curry
Organic and locally source ingredients are used in cooking

We headed out again to explore more and walked along the river to the point were two streams meets in hope of seeing a fishing cat or two, but the shy creature decided otherwise. In jungle the darkness of the evening arrives rather quickly and abruptly and turns the atmosphere into a mysterious eeriness….with a feeling of ‘being watched’….. good reason to head back to safety and company of other two-legged creatures! The reception area had a mini library (a dainty little cupboard) and the few guests sat around talking about the wilderness and the elusive leopards while sipping a cup of tea- as there was no internet we had enough time to soak in the atmosphere and felt gratitude for these simple pleasures. The darkness slowly engulfed the jungle, and we sat huddled up, while I read stories to Oviyan from the library. The crickets gave some background score and after a few piercing kisses from the local mosquitoes - dinner was served.


Tree house stay in jungle in Sri Lanka
A walk by the river bed in the evening

Sri Lankan forest tree house stay
A walk through the jungle near Back of Beyond property

On our way back Oviyan was thrilled to lead the way pointing the torch on the ground as we walked back to our tree-house which was built on a raised wooden platform (approx.,10 feet high above the ground) under the thatched roof and in between a canopy of trees with three sides open (no wall). On the rear side of the tree house was a 6-7 feet high wall. The only barrier between us and any unsolicited visitor was the mosquito net on our bed! The darkness and feeling of being exposed especially after the leopard intel earlier in the day kept us awake. We flashed our torch light on every moving thing and sound - we tried to keep the conversation going until exhaustion got the better of us and we finally dozed off. In stark contrast to the nights, the dawn in a forest is splendid!!! Woken up by the loud cheerful bird calls, we opened our eyes to the Sri Lankan Grey Hornbill perched up on the wooden railing of our tree house balcony. Breathing in the fresh air and listening to the chatter of the birds we drank our tea and felt alive! To this day the memory of that morning is so vivid that it feels like it has stayed with us forever.


Tree House stay in Sri Lanka
The morning tea with a view

Tree House Stay in Sri Lanka
Early morning at Back of Beyond

Another interesting aspect of a tree-house dwelling is the morning shower - sky was the ceiling! Though I knew the only onlookers were creatures with tails or wings, I couldn’t resist not keeping an eye out while showering in a rush.

We started our day with a nature walk to see more beautiful birds. After devouring an amazing Sri Lankan dish for breakfast - coconut rotis and daal curry we headed back to pack up and start our journey back to the civilized world…

Sri Lankan breakfast
Breakfast from the kitchen of Back of Beyond

As we approached the villages our phones started catching network signal again and we got connected to the world we know but then disconnected us with the world we would love to know more….

It was an unforgettable experience…in the lap of nature, without the modern day technology and where time flows slower than the slow moving KiriOya stream, a place where you can stop and appreciate the beauty of nature and hope these sounds, the wilderness will be there for the next generations to see and love….

 
 
 
Writer: Slow CoachSlow Coach

Updated: Jan 21


Stilt fishing at Kogaala Sri Lanka
Stilt fishing near Kogaala, South Sri Lanka

Following the end of the country’s 26-year-long civil war in 2009, Sri Lanka has opened its doors to the world and has only cropped up on travellers’ radars in recent years. Often referred to as the Peral of this Indian Ocean- this is a country held together by an intriguing mix of deep-rooted Buddhist beliefs, colonial heritage of the British, Dutch and the Portuguese and the local way of life.


Our 9 days travel through Sri Lanka took us to the beautiful beaches of the south, put us face to face with the famous Yala Leopard, bedazzled us with the lush green hills and tea gardens, ruins and world heritage sites and filled out heart with joy with each morsel of delicious Sri Lankan food, specially the rice and curries.

Dutch villa Galle Sri Lanka
Our stay in Galle - Green Casa, a beautiful Villa restored from a old Dutch house

Galle Fort Light House Sri Lanka
Galle Fort Light House

Dalawella Beach Galle Sri Lanka
Dalawella Beach

Galle senset by beach Sri Lanka
Releasing baby turtle back in the ocean at sunset, Galle

Stilt fishing Kogaala Sri Lanka
Stilt fishing, Kogaala

It is one of those few places that has it all- stunning tropical beaches fringed by coconut trees, cloud kissed highlands that flavour the country's famous tea, abundant wildlife and vibrant landscape- not to mention the mouth-watering food, mesmerising heritage and simple and friendly locals.


Tangalle beach Sri Lanka
One of the many beach side open air bar and restaurant in Tangalle

Safari camp at Yala National Park Sri Lanka
Big Game Yala - our tainted accommodation at Yala National Park

Little Adam's Peak Ella Sri Lanka
Little Adam's Peak - Ella

Tea Garden of Sri Lanka Ella
Tea leaf picking - Ella

Tea factory tour in Ella Sri Lanka
Tea tasting season at Uva Halpewatte Tea Factory, Ella

There are too many stories to tell- but one that always comes to my mind is my 4 year old’s unexpected love affair with the tea gardens. We had visited the Uva Halpewatte Tea Factory where one very knowledgeable gentleman gave us a guided tour of the place and went deep into the science and geography of tea… we were one of the 4 couples, and Oviyan was the only non-adult member! As the tour progressed we were a bit sceptical of our decision to bring a 4 year old along and we tried to make things interesting by adding some interesting facts that we could cook up in our brains. When it came to the tasting session, Oviyan was there in front- the first one to taste each variety and gulped down every drop in every cup. He was so thrilled with the whole experience- that after a few years when we went to a brewery he asked why he wasn’t allowed to taste the whiskeys and made a lot of heads turn around (yes we did take him to a brewery 😊)


The next day to our dismay and surprise he kept asking us for a second trip to the tea factory! We decided to stop at Damro Labookellie Tea Centre, however this one was way too commercial and crowded and there was no laid back and lazy tea tasting. We ordered some tea but this didn’t cut the mustard for our little tea lover!


But then there were a lot of other firsts for him- first sighting of a leopard in the wild, releasing baby turtles in the sea, staying on a tree house etc!


Haputale Rail Station Sri Lanka Sri Lanka train jounry
Haputale Rail Station - waiting for a train to travel back to Ella through beautiful countryside

Tea Gardens of Sri Lanka
Tea gardens of central Sri Lankan hilly region

Kandy market Sri Lanka
Kandy fruit and vegetable market

Sri Lankan cultural dance Kandy Sri Lanka
Sri Lankan cultural dance - Kandy

Another whacky confusion was when we headed for Candy- Oviyan kept asking how long it will take all the way (well that wasn’t new but just the hurry to get there rather than the boredom of the journey). Once we parked he looked very let down and asked where Candy was - we kept saying we are already here…after some Q&A we figured out that Oviyan was perhaps imagining some sort of city of candies or some fantasy candy destination!! All he wanted after this massive let down was a real candy- so we just checked in and I looked for the regular candy bowls at the reception but there were none! I asked one of the ladies trying to explain the situation and she went running to look for one and then came back saying for some reason do don’t have any candies, but the chef has sent some cakes instead. Well we were more than happy but silly children cannot be pleased- what no candies in ‘Candy’ I heard a grumpy little man say under his breath!


Dambulla Cave Temple Sri Lanka
Dambulla Cave Temple

Well the stories never end and something that we realized over time is that stories happen when you plans don’t work! We were heading to the Buddha tooth relic temple and Joy had repeated and reminded me enough number of times to ensure I didn’t turn up at the temple in shorts- we were stretched for time so did our best to reach there as early as possible in the evening. And then the inevitable happened- I breezed through the doors and Joy was stopped for wearing shorts!! He didn’t see that coming and argued that his shorts adequately covered his knees but the staff wouldn’t buy that but asked if we had a sarong or something- now usually I have one of those in my bag but on this one occasion I didn’t. Just outside there were some street vendors selling this for a little fortune! Not the ones to fall into these tourist traps we instead got into a tuk tuk and raced back to the hotel. He waited while Joy and Oviyan changed to cover up their legs and then raced back through the traffic of the city.

For some wicked reason it felt nice- for someone else to of another gender to be told what to wear 😊


Tree house jangal stay in Sri Lanka
Back of Beyond - Wild Heaven, Dehigaha Ela, near Sigiriya

 
 
 
Writer: Slow CoachSlow Coach

Updated: Mar 8, 2022


Treasury, Ancient city of Petra


Jordan is not one of the countries that springs to your mind when you are thinking about your next travel destination. Nestled between Syria, Iran, Saudi Arabia, Israel and West Bank it doesn’t bring up the let’s say ---‘comfortable’ feeling. But isn’t travel just that- to push you out of your comfort zone and give you an experience of a lifetime!


Our Little Explorer


So we took the plunge and came back with some most memorable and interesting memories! It was definitely spotted with reminders of conflict zones nearby but that doesn’t come close to what you experience. It has got that warm middle eastern feel to it- sunshine, amazing food and very hospitable people. For us the one thing that stood out is the way kids are welcomed in the country. It doesn’t have to do with kid friendly facilities but the people in general- we got a nice packed lunch for our sleepy boy from the air hostess, the hotel security let him take a peep at the x-ray scanner, the bell boy offered a jolly ride on his luggage trolley, the souvenir shopkeeper gave him a little Jordan flag bracelet and escorted him on his walk through aisles laden with the expensive and delicate pottery! We haven’t had that sort of experience anywhere in the world so far! Hats off to Jordanians for being such a kind society!

The Siq of Petra, Wadi Musa

Beduin tribe from the Ancient city of Petra, Wadi Musa


The other wow factor was the diversity of the landscape- dead sea, rugged mountains that look like they have been intentionally sculpted to look so jaw dropping, deserts that make you wonder how something so arid can be so breath-taking, and the jewel of the crown Petra! Magical is the word- its like diving right into your wonderland and seeing it unfold in front of your eyes- it is unreal. It brings out the child in you- which makes your little one a very happy little one!


The rugged yet beautiful landscape of Jordan


Diversity also doesn’t end with landscape- you can experience roof top fine dining in Amman and the very same day walk through the streets of Salt- a place that makes you feel you just time travelled back into history. Salt also brings up an interesting little story to mind. We went there with our very knowledgeable and impeccable guide Hussam- he seems to know every street and every shopkeeper in the country!


Our guide and driver, Hussam


So with Hussam we travelled to the town of Salt. After wandering through the markets we headed to see the old pharmacy (Abu Jaber Museum)- only to find that it was closed for the day as delegates from Australia were due to visit. Hussam worked his charm and the door guy allowed us inside- we were almost at the end of our visit when we were suddenly confronted by an Arab (em a very angry Arab to be precise) with two official ladies following him. He looked at us and asked us something in Arabic and turned to the two ladies- hands up in the air- making no attempt to hide his displeasure- we tried to say we were leaving and that we were just regular travellers and that we were leaving-right leaving now (if he would care to move from the way!!)- it was some crazy few minutes in that futile conversation in two languages- Mothering instincts kicked in and so did all the episodes of ‘Banged up Abroad’. We scanned for the nearest exit and just headed off! Then ended up in a long flight of stairs- another door and straight into the banquet hall- with long tables of food and official looking people in their silk robes and our very own angry Arab! The banter in the hall stopped and everyone looked at us- Our angry Arab stood there in disbelief -his eyes staring at us like a tiger waiting to ward off trespassers- I haven’t looked so desperately for doors in my life- without another word, we just scooted across the hall to the other side and dashed out of the door avoiding any sort of eye contact with anyone. Another flight of stairs and we were out on the street and to the comforting sight of Hussam chatting with the guard. He wanted to ask if we liked it- ‘sure yes’! But ‘I am a traveller- get me out of here’- was what we were really saying!


Entrance of a shop in the Bazar of Salt


Was it the side effect of binge watching or prejudice or something real - I will never know. But experiences like this do make for good dinner conversations! Our trip to Jordan was one of the best - we didn’t know what we were signing up for, and sometimes its nice to not know!


At khazali siq (canyon) in Wadi Rum


Verdict: Go with an open mind, it is very safe for travellers and the place also has visible presence of tourist police. Enjoy the food, stay hydrated and use your common sense- respect the culture- don’t turn up in teeny shorts and tank tops in old town - there are lots of other places especially hotels and resorts where you can soak up the sun the way you want but like they say - when in Rome, be like a Roman!

The unforgiving lunars landscape of Wadi Rum

 
 
 
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